After the KG Invest event I realised that I mix pronouns when I'm talking about your past - I will refer to "him" in the past tense if I'm talking about things that happened, say, before Circa Nocturna this year since for me that's the watershed moment, and "her" in the current and future tense. I also sometimes refer to you in the masculine when I am talking about your ongoing relationship with D'smum. I will try to modify that, but please do bear with me.